Lets Love

    

     We are different in the way we speak, see things, make our opinion, learn, argue and give it back to the society but the one thing that we all experience in our individual life is LOVE, the greatest gift of God to mankind. Love can be best defined as a single thin thread that binds us with those people who are near to us and also with those people who are very far away from us.

     You may accept it or deny it but you have loved many people in life, inside and outside of your home. You have loved your parents when they have not slept for many nights when you were sick, you have loved your brother and sister when they have shared their chocolate with you, you have loved your friend when he/she takes the blame for screwing things up. We can escape living but we can’t escape loving because love is a heavenly escape from this cruel world. We all need love that can be felt and for which we can care, fight, cry and smile. If you look inside yourself, you will end up agreeing that God is the best and most qualified architect because of the way he has designed the emotional structure of every single human being. We will cry when we are sad, we will hug someone when we are happy or sad, we will keep quiet when we are feeling low, we will shout when in pain or anger and we will surely smile when we are happy. When I was in school and I was in imaginary love with just another girl (for whom I didn’t even existed) I had written this line-

‘We need to hold some one’s hand while walking, not out of the fear of falling but with the promise of holding it till the end’

Now the time has come when some of us have started taking love for granted and treat it like secondary item. I find it so foolish to scale success, money and love. Without a second thought, it is clear that other two elements of love can’t be enjoyed without Love. In life, it often happens that some people from opposite gender and sometimes from same gender catch our eyes and never let us go away. Sometimes when we try to go or we are forced to go, it hurts badly. We cry. We remember. We regret. And we promise in the front of mirror to never fall in love again. 

But as the song goes- ‘Dil toh baccha hai ji...thoda kacha hai ji’

And we again fall for someone because as I have already told- We can’t escape loving! Most of the best chapters I have learned in my half baked life are from the same source- A broken heart. Just like any other kid I went to school, learnt some good and bad stuff, did my share of fun and loved many girls around me and obviously they broke my young and stupid heart. A broken heart may not make noise but it teaches well. Oh yeah! It was my broken heart that told me from time to time to be my own best friend. My heart told me that no girl can be more loving and caring than my mother (So true!) and never to forget friends when in a relationship. Now at this stage I can say that I have learnt these lessons well and I am sure that there are so many to come in future. Whatever they may be, I will still stand by love.

Now that I have written enough about love and how essential it is, let me give you a little gyaan- Don’t listen to those idiots who say so many foolish things- You should demand love and not beg for love, enjoy the lust part of relationship, love is not forever, two lovers can’t be good friends and don’t go after your lost love.

Seriously? Damn no, don’t listen to such sick people who have either big male/dude ego or girls with high level of loose-self respect and value.

Come on! Love is the only thing worth of begging, you can’t love if you are in for lust, love stays in the heart of people even when you will be dead, you never hated your lover back then so why can’t you both be friends now and true lovers love forever.

MORAL- Go and express your love!