Being At The Core..!!!

At a certain stage of life, each one of us understands what is it and how deep it goes. It may come late, too late but it does arrive. Kicking as good as the newly snored stuff. Be it the relationships fabricated for years, money spent recklessly or the constant failures knocking us down. We understand and a few of us accept. Though the wise is in accepting the prevailing present and let go disastrous past, a few are still stuck there. For this, reasons are too many to tell and a few to be reasonable. But what is it that needs to be done to save the running hour?

While the leaving behind may look weak and sometimes in vain, that’s the best escape. Also make the leaving as brutal as it can, because no mutual understanding has ever existed. Why to be at such a place where you don’t want to be and when you know you are meant for the best. For what those were the best moments lived and cherished, new ones are on their way. Water, being the purest form of nature has its own expiry time if not used at the right time. So if the stored water has gone waste and dull, empty the basket to let in fresh water. May be the same stands true for time, the most mysterious element of life. Time spent with one person shall not hold you forever even if it was the most amazing one. And hello, how can you say it was the most amazing one! You have not even lived half of your average life. And moreover what’s the use of being there, stuck at One when you have millions around to go with. If being with that person makes you negative, aggressive, filled with self criticism, it’s the time to quit.  Being at the core of it is paining, sometimes too paining to breath but then that is what takes you forward and opens new doors for you. That time of loneliness and self guilt makes you more self wanted and more charming than you ever were. The process includes looking into inner self, evaluation, judgment and then the holy conclusion. This evaluation gives you the right answer to understand why you threw away that certain person from life and why that person is undeserving for you. As the true diamonds are discovered only after digging a lot of lands, you can be best of yourself only after being beaten, emotionally and mentally.

So it’s really important to go through the unchanged, eternal path of life, no matter how painful it is. Be there, go as deep as you can. Only then you can rinse your soul of bad, negativity and walk to the positive aspect of life. Let the marbles of your unwanted past break only to let the game go on!